Treat Me Like A Queen Or Be A Lonely King
It’s a beautiful sight to scroll through my time line and see so many happy couples. Before I got into my relationship I use to look up to many of these couples making them my #RelationshipGoals, until one day I saw one of my favorite couples In the mall and I was totally unimpressed. The guy was calling his girlfriend names like stupid or D***head and even made a nasty comment about her outfit referring to her jeans as “Them corny a** jeans”. Of course I was ease dropping and being nosy; but if you would of saw the look on that poor girls face you would have been looking too. Plus I also dealt with someone in the past who would make the same disgusting comments and talk down on me. It took me 2 years and a total drop of confidence to realize how much of a BOY he was and I finally stop dealing with him. My friends would always ask me why it took me so long to come to my senses but the truth Is, I was ignoring all the signs. Here are three signs that you shouldn’t ignore when in a relationship.
1. He does not Open Doors for you: A gentlemen will always open the door for his woman. Not because he’s a sucker but because he cares enough to make sure his lady gets in safely first before he does. Chivalry ain't dead these men just scared!
2. He Doesn’t Respect His Mother: If he doesn’t have a good relationship with his mom he can’t possibly know how to treat women.
3. He’s not happy with Himself: Steve Harvey once said in his Book Act like a Lady Think Like a man that a man he cannot be happy with you if he is not happy with himself. If a man has feelings of inadequacy regardless of what’s causing it (money, depression, bad job) he cannot love you the right way.
Looking out for these three simple things can help you determine what kind of man you are dealing with. But always remember you should never settle queen.